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March 11, 2009
The method described is in direct contrast to that used by earlier therapists who believed that a man with premature ejaculation should not be touched during foreplay, and in intercourse should direct his mind from his sexual performance by thinking about non-erotic matters, Their success rate was low.
The couple are now ready for sex-play and genital stimulation to retrain the man so that he can delay his climax. Masters and Johnson recommend that the woman can best stimulate the man’s penis if she sits, her back against the headboard of the bed, her legs spread out, with her husband lying on his back facing her, his body between her legs, his legs over hers, but the couple should use the position they find most pleasing. Whatever position is chosen it must give the woman a free, gentle, and ready access to the man’s genital area. First, she stimulates his penis to a good erection and then uses the ‘squeeze technique’ suggested in 1969 by Dr James Semans. The idea is that as sexual tension mounts in the man and as he feels his climax approaching, he signals the woman to stop stimulating his penis, and to reduce his need to ejaculate by squeezing his penis firmly, just below the glans. The woman’s thumb presses on the frenulum, and her first and second finger give counter-pressure just below the coronal ridge. If the woman presses firmly in this way for about 3 to 5 seconds, the man loses the urge to ejaculate, provided he has not reached the phase of inevitable ejaculation. Quite quickly he learns to anticipate this, and is able to signal his partner to start the squeeze technique just before the phase is reached. She must press or squeeze firmly, or it will not stop him ejaculating. She will not hurt her partner’s penis; it is much less delicate than many people imagine. This applies equally to stimulating a man’s penis. It can be gripped firmly and masturbated vigorously. If the woman believes she is squeezing or manipulating her man’s penis too hard, all she has to do is to ask him. He will tell her!
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