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THE DESEXUALIZATION OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGE: EXTRAMARITAL SEX VS. SUPER MARITAL SEX – THE REASONS FOR EXTRAMARITAL SEX

May 18, 2009

The reasons for extramarital sex are as varied as the people who engage in it. No research has ever told us why people do it. I suggest, however, that one reason is that extramarital sex has enjoyed a sexual monopoly. It gets most of the attention and offers a cafeteria of descriptions guaranteed to meet some appetite. It is seen as so much fun that it is resisted only by control, awareness and religious punishment, self-denial, and acceptance of the myth of the more moral but less intense sexuality of marriage. Seldom do you read that sex in marriage is not only better than sex outside of marriage, but that extramarital sex falls far short of the intimacy and sexual fulfillment available within marriage. You will learn throughout this book that no form of extramarital sex can compete with super marital sex, and once this lesson is learned, spouses having affairs may begin cheating on their “lovers,” and having “intramarital” sex with their husband or wife.

We live in a society in which it is much easier to look “out” than “in,” to seek variety when we fail to find intensity. Super marital sex is developed not by variety, adventure, mystery, and the “affairizing” of marriage, but by learning an entirely new orientation to sexuality and its relationship to lasting love. There are many old lessons that will have to be unlearned, and a new perspective on sexuality will have to be developed. This is the purpose of this book. Follow along with each chapter and you will see that extramarital sex doesn’t stand a chance against super marital sex.